You see... give you an example :-
When you looking for job, what is the your expectation? Frankly...
1) You hope, you can contribute and do your best to the company?
2) You hope, the company can give you better benefit and future growth in your career?
(of coz salary is one of the expectation)
I admit, I am selfish... I always looking for a company can growth me all the ways to the top. Of course in the same time I will growing with the company, right? But the main concern for most poeple is (especially me)... How we forsee the company to growth us in 5 years and not how much are we going to contribute to the company in 5 years time, right ladies and gentlements? Hahaha (For Boss... dont kill me, I just talk as an employee or "tar gong chai")
I believe it work in this way... what do you think? You can always argue with me that "is not that way"... but I got my supporter and reader... so better you dont comment something stupid here =) Wahahaha
Everyone have their own preferences, I will never say I am right or you are right... Just is matter our choice.
"If you put a pretty girl (sexy and big boob) and a toy in front of a baby, he'll pick up a toy because his need is different" - is all about different need in different time.
When he grown up... he will need the pretty girl =) Giving a right thing in the right time is the most important aspect. I wish my sharing is helpful for everyone when judging anyone or even yourself...